Madame Marie of Asbury Park Sent Me This Dream

Yesterday we strolled around Asbury Park. It rained heavily in the morning and when it lifted, the sun burned off the clouds and the boardwalk stretched like a splintered tongue towards packing crates-turned-crepe stands and slightly edgy, talkative surfers. The water (Florida hurricane coming?) was rip tide-churning and seemed to slap anyone who came too close.

Everything was fairly empty because of the earlier rain. I liked seeing the tourists from afar, dotted under the peeling Casino sign like roadside flowers.

My mother in law bought a silk tunic/sari thing for her daughter's wedding from a sassy lady selling penis shaped bottle openers.   I was in a pleasant fog all day.

I was disappointed to see that Madame Marie of the Bruce Springsteen song had died and supposedly her daughter works there instead. No one in my party seemed overly interested in getting a reading anyway.

But that purple hut and its third eye pyramid gifted me a wild dream. I was in a sort of nightclub, decorated like a garish carnival-- wheezing carousel, sing song-y men in purple tuxedos with tails, women in feathered leotards doing contortions, fire-eating girls and all the Hollywood hallmarks of a Great Depression traveling sideshow mish-mashed with me and my high school friends, dancing and talking about an upcoming blizzard.

My high school friend Dustin was there, who frequently appears in my dreams and has for years, despite the fact I haven't seen him in at least five years and we weren't especially close. He's become a symbol, maybe, synthesized energy of youth and maybe longing. There he was: drinking a beer on the side of the dance floor, watching me and my friends dance; it was all vaguely sexual and outside of time, like dreams always are. I'm me as an adult, but he's himself at nineteen, and some of the players on that dance floor are people I've met at various times of my life (one friend, Megan, is there, with green hair, inexplicably). The squeezebox music is out of time, like Dustin is.  Or maybe I'm out of time, stepping into the alternate world, the portal where Dustin and these people live, dancing and drinking outside boundaries of space. (I'm sure you've had a dream so vivid you had to wonder if the dream was real and the sleeping person you are is the illusion-- you know, those conversations you've had in college when you thought you were insanely deep).

But there's a blizzard coming, I told everyone, including Dustin, who can't hear me, because of the music.  He disappears, and I suddenly can't find anyone I know. Everyone is going home, and I don't have a ride. I am now crying and alone and can't find a coat. The coat check girl is screwing a guy right in front of me: she's probably on top of my coat.

I felt so alive in my desperation. This is the part of the dream that seems so real: the frantic need to say, a blizzard is coming everyone! I need to find Dustin! I don't have my coat! And the carnival churns on around me as if I'm not there.

When I woke up a few minutes ago, it felt like this dream was a burning prophecy from Madame Marie's shack. It felt that important.

Now that I typed it all out, it looks just like any dream I might have before the new school year starts up again. Pretty prosaic. You can break it down so easily, especially if you know me.

circus= life/summer/fun/anxiety to start school
Dustin= youth/longing/sexuality/the past
Dustin's disappearance= typical abandonment issues/fear of getting old
lack of coat= insecurity/exposure
slutty coat check girl= everyone is having fun but me
blizzard= baby/pregnancy procrastination

I'll set up a shack on that boardwalk: dream interpretation. And cheese fries.

the end of the summer

I wrote him a desperate, wordy letter that said, "the summer's almost over and I wanted to tell you I love you." It really didn't say that exactly-- I was around nineteen and not nearly articulate enough for that. I thought it said that, but really I probably wrote something like, "I just wanted to say I miss you and I hope that you don't hate me because of the bad way we split up" or something awkward/uncool to that effect (I probably should have apologized for the threatening Sharpie sign I put on his car that declared my hate-- that happened at the beginning of the summer, when such displays of crazy seem like a great idea).

I may or may not have included bad poetry about how I hate/the sound/ of crickets/because now/ when I hear their August moan/I'm not kissing you/I'm all alone. (Will someone invent a special time machine that transports us to these moments of abysmal, naked longing so we can edit them and make ourselves...well...less abysmally naked?)

This time of year, when it's hot and bright and I'm tan and busy, I think about July romances and the cliche of the weepy goodbye: teenagers leaving summer camp boyfriends behind, the kisses wet on their memories like grass; people breaking up before going to college; the crackly burn of a vacation hook-up soon fizzling to a hazy flashback-- an anecdote told to a friend over melting ice cream.

I walked with my friend Allison around her neighborhood last night. It was so steamy out, you could see the moisture rising off the grass, and our quiet chit chat in the little parking lot behind the bank somehow sent us both back, reeling, to that age where the summer and all its promises and drama was all that was going on.  She said that she felt just like she did when she was a kid, and she would go swimming all day in someone's pool, and then go back to someone's house for a sleepover, all tired from the sun yet ready to disclose the deepest recesses of her soul to whatever best friend of the moment was with her.

It's just that muggy, distinct summer air: so August. 

So today I'm remembering that first real broken heart. How it got wound up like a wristwatch, beating with love, how he pulled the pin, stopping time, or so it seemed. 

A few nights after I sent that ill-advised letter, I sat on my back porch and tried to explain to my father: I hate the end of the summer.

I had that veneer of bitterness and resolve. But I knew it would happen all over again, probably the next summer.